I am not busy.
Or, at least I am thinking hard about how not to be busy. And, I have to say, I am starting to get there.
“Isn’t ‘Lazy’ a negative connotation? Do you want your blog to be associated with ‘lazy’?”
Well, I think most of us are either workaholics or driven extrinsically to do too much. But, I’ll just speak for myself here. I’m both. So, when trying to be as Lazy as possible, it all works out in the end. I’m still doing stuff. I hardly ever get to eat bon bons. I rarely watch television of any kind.
That’s fine. What I’m shooting for is a lot more:
- sitting (alone or near someone I like cuddling with)
- gentle exercises I learn in physical therapy
- walking outdoors
Get inspired by this quick blog post from the Marriage Geek family therapist:
Make your game a winnable game. Set the bar “lower.”
P.S. Do I wonder what would happen if everyone became so low-key, lazy, and less “productive”? Yep. But, let’s not argue about whether this is for everyone. This is for parents and caretakers, especially the person most responsible for taking care of children and elderly. Because if you are, then you are already doing [one of] the most important jobs in the world. I’m not going to worry about whether the world will come to an end if I sit down. I think I’ll notice it before it gets that bad. For now, I’m calming the world down one person at a time, starting with myself, and osmotically, the other 3 people I live with.